THE Honeymoon

I stayed late at work today, partly because I was last-minute searching for a hotel room for our honeymoon.

Then a colleague walked by, took a wedding invitation card from my desk and asked about my honeymoon.

I asked if he knew of any good hotels.

He advised me to pick any 6-star hotel and get the hubby to foot the bill. 

"Don't care. Just choose. He pays."

My jaw dropped.

Firstly, me & Alfi are going for our 6-day honeymoon soon after our wedding, though it is only Krabi.

And Mom is planning holidays for the family which I want to pengsan already cos now no more free. 

*lol*

Secondly, we already have a house, though not ready, which we will still need the money to do works even though its fully furnished.

Still need to fix grills, false ceiling, repaint works, furniture, bla bla bla.

Thirdly, we spent a bomb splurging ourselves on the wedding gifts on top of the wedding expenses.
Wedding shopping lists which you can never have the cost recovered

Ok so to be fair, I asked him what was his reason for saying so.

His first reason: Set Target

"You must set the target! Set the target high so he work and work to pay off your bills. Having a wife is not cheap you know!"

And yes, as u can imagine - he is married.

His second reason: Be his second wife
"He wants to buy a new car - let him buy.

He wants to have a new bed - let him buy.
He wants a laptop after having 10 laptops - let him buy.
He wants a new house - let him buy.

A successful man became successful because his wife is thrifty. She scrimps and saves and take care of the house and kids and also control the husband. Then the husband leaves her for another woman. Give her all the money.

Why?

Because all these while, he is so controlled by the wife that he cannot do anything. Cannot buy this, cannot buy that. Cannot do this, cannot do that.

So he leaves her for a woman who would not control him.

A second wife character."

Final reason: Be fair

His final reason, which I laughed the hardest and I had to AGREE on this note is this:

"Your muslim people allow to marry 4 right? 

But the rule is that the husband MUST be fair!"

I nodded.

"So YOU set the standards. 

If you have an expensive honeymoon, the second wife also must have an expensive honeymoon. 

Ask him for whatever you want NOW!

Ask him for Rolex, load him with your credit cards bills, make him keep finding money to keep up with your expenditure so he know he can't afford double!

Bottom line, don't make him afford a second wife!"

I really can't help laughing.

Thought this is really a good share with you ladies. 

But let us take this judgement in our own hands for we know who we got or getting married to.

:) 

xoxo, 

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