I was in mom's room for a while and she was watching The Bachelor - Rome.
Honestly, I do not watch much of the telly and when I do, it will either be news or my favourite Star Channel.
But that would be about once every two weeks.
I was watching the part where the Bachelor hands out roses to the girls he picks to continue dating.
The girls waiting in eager to get that rose for herself.
How the guy gets a kiss on the cheek from every girl he handed out his rose to.
The same side of the cheek filled with multiple lip glosses, multiple texture, multiple colour or probably multiple flavour.
When the girls are sent home, the bachelor said,"I hate to send anyone home but I can't wait to spend my times with the girls I picked."
I am disgusted.
I watch the part where girls throw themselves on the bachelor, in hopes of a fairy tale wedding.
In fact, next episode, 1 pool, 1 bachelor, 8 girls and they jumping all over and around him in their skimpy bikinis or even sitting on his shoulder.
The guy prolly will have a hard-on throughout.
And he said,"My objective on this show is to find a wife, a life partner to spend the rest of my life with."
I, am disgusted.
The guy is a double major asshole and the girls are largely dumb blondes.
He kisses and hugs every woman.
'Wine-tasting'
Savouring and getting the feel of it before putting it away thinking its not good enough.
Every woman sees herself with this man saying,"It is a wonderful thing to fall in love in Rome."
They give it all to be the one.
Why doesn't anyone believe in traditional courtship.
No, not the matchmaking kinds because I have been there and hate it loads.
But seriously, is this where the value of love is placed today?
It is no longer the man courting a woman, pleasing her, craving for her attention, send flowers, calls day & night.
It is no longer the man working to have the lady fall in love with him.
Instead of a woman being able to feel secured with a man who loves her, she is on her toes to make sure her man stays in love with her and pleases him, going beyond her limits & creativity all the time.
I know many men today who take their (if they even considered theirs) women for granted.
I wish women are born less emotional.
Else, I wouldn't be writing this entry.
I want to hear again for someone explain to me again what is love?
No one answered me when I blogged this topic up 3 yrs ago.
Would you really like to marry a guy from The Bachelor?
Despite his good looks, I wouldn't.
If he can capture the hearts of a dozen women, I'm sure he can do better - in time.
20 or 30 or even more when he thinks his market is going down.
Need to profusely test market if still 'laku' or not.
I'm never ready to play second fiddle.
Neither am I ready to live feeling insecured that he has the upper hand of choice and dump me as and when he pleases.
I'd rather not be borned than to live a wasted life as such.
Sharing is not necessarily caring.
In case you are wondering, The Bachelorette is no different to me.
Disclaimer:
This is merely a simple analysis of watching The Bachelor for 10 mins (or less).
xoxo,
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