Tuesday, April 18, 2006

If i could ask God a question...
Only one
This is what i would ask:
'Why do You make men and women the way they are today?'

Ok there are many who probably think that i am worse than crazy talking about this so early in the morning.
And you know what?!?
I DON'T CARE!

So why did God made men with one hormone and women with two?
Why did God made men in such a way that they think about sex every 30 secs ?
(ok i read that from somewhere)
Why did God made women go through menopause and drain their sexual drives?
Why did God even have to start all these and then allow men to justify the need of marrying more than one?
I heard in one syarahan i attended to:
"Kita perempuan menopause. Lelaki men-no-pause"

Most of polygamy is seen when men goes over 40.
Why?
Cos that's the period when the sex drives of women dips
And that arousal would not even make the women high.
And when the husbands get sexually frustrated, it somehow give him FULL justification to marry another one.
Some say it is sunnah nabi to be marrying 4.
I heard a wife telling a husband,"Oh bila nak kahwin, ikut nabi. Tapi perangai macam babi"

So what's with marriage and sex?
Do men really get married to grow old with the women they love?
Or they said they love..
How far and how long can they love?
If they do, then why find every reason to sleep with a woman even for the night?
Or to even get married again.

I know men who dissed marriage and think that girls and nothing but trouble.
And i wish to tell this people to just banish from the earth cos they don't even deserve a mother.
*smirk*

I know most of my blogreaders are still pretty young.
And none of my blogreaders have reached the menopausal stage.
But menopause is real.
Women face it.
I will face it too...
And when many of you will.. in 25 years down the road at most.
And when you do, you wish your husband is just supportive of such body changes.
Hot flushes.
Anger and short-temperedness
Sensitivity.
Just to name a few..

Doctors try to fight against it using HRT hormone pills
For hormone replacement.
But there is only so much that chemicals can do.
Nature will definitely overpower the advanced medical world at some point.

So God, why do u make men and women the way they are today?
Why inflict pain more on women then on men?
Call me a feminist but i never bothered irrelevant opinions out there.
Cos this is not about feminism.
This is about life as a woman.
Facing the harsh reality.

So women, find a man who understands women and her needs.
Not just lust
Not just materials
Not just the ideology of love
(until today nobody can ever define 'love' to me)
But also understands how it is having a wife who undergoes menopause
Because believe or not, you may jolly well spend 25 years of good sex and 30 years of menapausal together.

Just strike my mind.
Our prophet married Khadijah when she was 40.
He was 25.
But till the day she died, she was the one he loved the most.
I don't think its all about the sex is it?

yeah yeah... hit me all you want AGAIN..
Like i freakin' care.

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